Americans in Brazil: how to make Brazilian friends
Updated October 18, 2026
Brazilians are known for being warm and welcoming, and many Americans who move to Brazil make friends quickly. Still, the language and some cultural habits can feel like a wall at first. These tips help you get past it.
Where to meet Brazilians
- Language exchanges: lots of Brazilians want to practice English. It's the easiest door in.
- Sports: pick-up soccer (pelada), beach volleyball and footvolley, running groups, jiu-jitsu academies.
- Classes: samba, forró, capoeira, cooking. You'll learn the culture and meet people at the same time.
- Coworkers and neighbors: say yes to the invitation to the churrasco (barbecue). That's where friendships happen.
- Online: on Hello Beijo, Americans living in Brazil can meet Brazilians in their own city. Use the place filter to see who's nearby.
Fitting in
- Accept invitations, even last-minute ones. Brazilian plans are often spontaneous.
- Expect warmth: a kiss on the cheek (or two, depending on the city) and hugs are normal, even with people you just met.
- Be flexible with time at social events: arriving a little late to a party is often fine. For work and appointments, be on time.
- Join the WhatsApp group. That's where everything is organized, often with voice messages.
- Ask about soccer teams and local food. People love talking about both.
Learn some Portuguese
Many Brazilians speak little English outside big cities and tourist areas. Even basic Portuguese changes everything, and people will love the effort. Start with our Portuguese phrases for chatting and Brazilian expressions.
Be patient
Making close friends as an adult takes time anywhere. A University of Kansas study estimated it takes around 200 hours together for someone to become a close friend. Keep showing up: it's worth it.